The world is full of women but only few wives”. Many women don’t know that being a woman does not necessarily mean you can be a wife to a man. There are certain qualities that qualifies a woman to be a good wife to the husband she’s married to. Some men break up their relationships or marriages because they later found out that the woman they are living with is not yet a wife.
The wedding will give you the title wife, but to your husband the things you do will determine whether he’s married to a woman or a wife. Looking at the acronym of the word wife, we’ll discover certain characters that makes every woman a good wife for her husband.
W : WISE – Every wife is a wise woman like Abigail. She advices her husband about many things that will affect their future, family, children, finances and the like. They look into the future and not the present. In fact, any woman who is always concerned about the present and doesn’t talk about the future is not yet a wife. Because if they are wise they give the due respect to their husbands knowing they are the head of the relationship and don’t compete with them.
I : INDUSTRIOUS – Every wife is a hardworking person. They are always willing to work and help their husbands. They don’t want their husbands to shoulder all the family load alone, but try as much as possible to give a helping hand. In fact, they are not consumers but rather contributors. Their work starts from the home, they are not lazy and do not require the supervision of their husbands before cleaning, cooking, washing or attending to their responsibilities. The truth is they love work.
F : FAITHFUL – Every wife is a faithful partner, they love their husbands and only him. They love their husbands in both good and bad times. They are not like other women whose love grows when they see success and money and vanish when there is hardships. They will never share themselves secretly or privately with other men at workplace or masjid behind their husbands.
E : ENDURE – Every good wife is a gift from God and what makes them stand out is their ability to stick to their husbands till the end. They come into the marriage to love you irrespective of what comes your way and are willing to stand with their husbands to face the odds of life. They don’t care about your beginning, they are only interested in the vision of the man and where he’s going in life. Because they know that right men have vision and know where they are going. If you are a man and find such a woman never let her go.
AS A WOMAN CAN THESE CHARACTERISTICS BE SEEN IN YOU? CAN YOUR MAN SAY WITH CONFIDENCE, I HAVE FOUND A WIFE? IF NOT ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO START LEARNING AND BRANDING YOURSELF FOR A BETTER FUTURE.
Article by Fadumila Ayodeji